I knew this anyway – but somehow a bit of negativity crept into my space. I can’t be doing with negative vibes around me. I have a tolerance – a bit of leeway – everyone has bad days. But constantly glass half empty attitude – no.
I do think it’s easy to get caught off guard – to be generally happy and positive through life but to get caught in a negative cycle – and before you know it you’ve been sucked into a downward spiral. You can only see what’s wrong. There can end up being no way out. So I have a tolerance.
You do indeed become the sum of those closest to you – but when one of those influences is the constant TV news with its never ending splurge of negative content, the average becomes not pretty. If I’m in the same circle, no matter how positive I am, I barely touch redressing the balance. – And on the downside, that negativity rubs off on me.
Don’t get me wrong – I will not let fear and negativity rule my life, but I can’t help getting affected by it. I can feel it inside of me and I don’t like it.
As Tony Robbins says – see the situation for what it is – not worse than it is: know what it is you want: and take action to get there.
Positive vibes only in my circle please!
My 2020 Story 